ups and downs of our life

it's a been awhile..it seems that i have no time to do anything.. works really take over life..i really need sumthing to refresh myself.. no time for exercising, socialising.. sum more now farah's pregnant so we decided to have a break on our social life..works can be really stressful, with the presence of the bloody execs..dem,one week to tioman doesnt seem enuff for us..waaaa,i really miss tioman.. free from work, free from pressure,free from our parents ( erkk.. ), free from the worlds perception.. totally free..can wait for the next trip...

ever think about fixed marriage? what do you think..do you think that fixed marriage works in our times.. yeah, maybe it works in our grandmother's time  but i dont think that it's practical in this era..marrying sumone that you dont even know... what's their habits, their history, who are their frens,what are their likes and dislikes.eventhough the idea meeting a new guy, totally good guy ( as per our parent think they is la...) still not working for me.. looks can be deceiving though..but, are those kind of "good man" still exist.. i doubt that..he could be a loser then.. big time loser cos he needs his mommy to get him a chick ... hehehe.. for the guy, it could a bonus for them, since they'll definitely get  so called ' futurewife' yg really2 innocent..purely 'virgin'..not exposed to the polluted enviroment.. the type yg memang x kuar umah punye.. staying with the parent all the times..so they dont have to worry that the future wife will do anything nasty.. hehehe..no offense la..mebi it works to some ppl..